On the Glide: Raising Kids Who Stay Close as You Step Back — The Practical Parenting Guide for the Tween & Early Teen Years (Ages 6-14)

Control works—until it doesn't.Somewhere between ages 6 and 14, the family system changes. The bedroom door closes. "How was school?" becomes "Fine." The routines that worked for years start generating resistance. You push harder. You get less truth. Welcome to the Drag.You're not failing. The system is. Your tween, preteen, or early teen isn't broken—they're entering the Transfer Phase. Hormones shift. Friendships become higher-stakes than family. Screens, social media, school pressure, and puberty all hit at once. The parenting playbook that worked for years is now generating attitude, anxiety, and silence.On the Glide is a practical engineering manual for these Threshold Years. Not gentle parenting. Not stricter parenting. A complete rebuild of how the family operates—so you can lead from a different position entirely. The position that keeps your son or daughter close as they grow up.Inside, you'll learn:How your child's Social OS works—and why the school cafeteria feels higher-stakes than a final exam for your 10-year-old, 12-year-old, or middle schoolerWhy obedience and grades are the wrong metrics—and how to track The Return, the measure that predicts a connected adolescence built on independence without distanceHow to shift from exhausted Manager to influential Consultant—the role transition that gives parents real influence after control runs outThe 15 Locked Lines: scripts for the conversations that matter most—anxiety, screens, friendship trouble, body image, lyingHow to build a Crisis Navigation Map for moments when nothing is workingWhy intuitive parenting fails most parents—and what to build insteadHow to repair after rupture, so trust survives the hard yearsThis is parenting non-fiction for the parent who wants to do the work, not be reassured. For mothers and fathers navigating the years when childhood ends and adolescence begins. For the family that wants to come out the other side still talking.This book was written by someone who has been in the Drag.A former Head of PR, Lena Mintz left corporate life after her second child and built Mr. Mintz, designing printable craft templates for parents and teachers. On the Glide is her second book, following While the Kids Slept (2025).Open the book and start building the architecture that holds when control no longer does. Read more